confrontations pt II

no this aint an usher song and no i din mis-spell confessions. just wanted to continue from where i left off on the confrontations post.

hands up if u currently have a grudge or is unhappy with someone you know. now keep that hand up if that person who is causing you to feel that way DOESN'T know that they are or if they do, they have no idea wat the reason is.

now most of you who put your hands up for the first question would have continued to have kept it up for the second one. its ok. u can put ur hands down. the thing is, why are you doing it? why are you prolonging your pain? your hurt? your anger?

wun it be easier if u just confronted that person who made u feel that way and talk things out with him/her. wouldnt it be so much less time-consuming than giving him the cold shoulder treatment and ignoring him? do u really have so much time to begin with? oh i'm not going to talk to him coz he forgot that he would take me out today. come on girl, there're hundred and one reasons why a guy would have forgetten something, even if it concerns u. face it. ur other half is just as human as u are. shoot him and he bleeds.

the thing is, most human beings aren't born with the gift of reading ppl's minds which makes it pretty hard for that chap to find out why he screwed up. if he got that far of finding out that he had screwed up, even better. but most dun usually know it the first time they meet the person after offendin them. so help him out a bit and talk it out with him. things will definitely be much better after that and you'll thank me for it (lunch would be a good gesture).




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