complaints

yo dan, this blog entry's for you for aksin me about my absence. dun take it the wrong way, i dun usually blog for people unless i am blogging for my babe and its dedicated to her. but the reason this entry is dedicated to you is because it kinda explains why i havent been blogging, and on top of that, my perspective on the world as well.

we humans have the tendency to complain. its not just a singaporean thing like we all think it is. because i believe that one who does not complain when they are not treated the way they are or get the serivce that they expect are just timid inside and do not dare to face the world. if i have offended you with this comment, dun take it to heart as you will soon see why.

well that was what i used to think, of people who didnt complain. but i realised how wrong i was. there are 2 types of people who do not complain. the ones who are timid as highlighted above and those who do not let such problems affect them. and i realise that i wanna mould myself into that kind of person.

when i blogged in the past, i used to write about reasons and my unhappiness with the world around me. but it all changed when i got attached and things got really great. i then started blogging about perspectives and all. but the underlying reason was still the same, that i wanted to let out steam on something. my previous post on education showed just this. it does feel good to let it all out, i can tell you that. but it had a negative aspect to it. it made me feel inferior somehow.

and now i embark on a new journey. to be a better person. i shall no longer blog when i am pissed off with something. rather i will blog after i have cooled down from an episode. i shall think bout what made agitated and control it first and then i shall blog about it. to me, i see no point to complain about life, coz its not gonna change anything. the person or thing you complain about will still be the way it is.

rather i would talk it out or work towards a solution. it may seem like a silent protest but it is far from that. its the growth and development of someone who strives to attain what he wants in the shortest time possible. while men start to live their life at 40, i want to do it 30. and i realise that to do that, i would have to take the road less travelled. complainin will only slow me down and i could do with less baggage on this journey.

so there you have it. the next time you wanna complain about something, stop and think. what good would it do you? plato once told a guy that if the information that the man for him was not informative, would not do him any good and was not confirmed would do plato no good. and that's just the thought i will carry with myself as well.

on a side note, good luck to all in the upcoming exams. godspeed and god bless.

Tariq :: email ::
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