insecurity

*for reasons, the previous post had to be removed*

ever had that feelin where u were always worrying bout somethin which u think u had or u truly had? kinda sucks doesnt it? u just dun wanna feel that way but somehow it just comes and haunts u. and the more u think bout it the more it engulfs u. not at one shot. but a little at a time till u go crazy or somehow managed to psyscho-ed urself to get out of it.

and insecurity can come in so many forms. from the mild kind of worryin, till the extreme form of obsession. from tryin to ignore it and get on with life to over-reactin to everything around. doin dumb stuff and sayin lame things. hahaha. i'm sure we've all been there or seen someone act that way before.

let's face it. we are not the best. not in any terms. if u think u are good-lookin, there's always a better lookin person out there. think u are rich, there is always a richer person (unless of course u are Bill Gates). think u're smart and u find a smarter kid the next day. u get the picture. and this is where the insecurity comes from. we are scared of losing what we have to someone who's better. scared of losin our place in society. scared of losing that number 1 spot. scared of losing just about anything to someone else.

it all stems from lack of confidence and can be overcome. if u can keep that though in mind, u'll be goin thru life as if u are the most good lookin, richest, smartest and what have u nots. u still wun be able to get rid of that thoughts of insecurity totally but at least u noe this time that u're better equipped to handle it.

the greatest of man is the one who can see himself for who he is.


Tariq :: email ::
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